Be careful little ears what you hear
When flattery leads to compromise, the end is always near
Casting Crowns – Slow Fade
“A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears.” Woodrow Wyatt
Our ears, they hear, but do they always listen? We stick ear buds in them, put headphones over them, wear blue tooths on them, and pierce them. When we were little, we tried to remember to clean them so Granny couldn’t dig “taters outa there”.
There are no Bible verses about cutting off your ears, thank heaven! But there are some about how we should hear.
Proverbs 8:33 “Hear instruction, and be wise, and refuse it not.”
Proverbs 1:5 “A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels:”
It also has a few things to say about how we shouldn’t use our ears.
Ecclesiastes 7:5 “It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools.”
Proverbs 19:27 “Cease, my son to hear the instruction that causeth to err from the words of knowledge.”
Use your ears to become wise and gain knowledge, and don’t listen to fools or people who will lead you astray. Seems like a no-brainer; doesn’t it? But is it?
2 Timothy 4:3-4 “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.
It does seem many “churches” today have motivational speakers instead of Pastors. The “don’t offend anyone, don’t step on any toes” attitude of today’s church has done more harm to the cause of Christ than any anti-Christian movement has ever done.
Yes, we all want praise, and we all want to feel good about ourselves, but let’s not sacrifice truth on the altar of self esteem.
Proverbs 26:28 “A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it, and a flattering mouth worketh ruin.”
It might be pleasant to have someone “spread it on thick” for a few minutes, but you can bet anyone laying on the flattery does not have your best interests at heart.
Proverbs 7:21-22 “With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him. He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;”
Those who would destroy your life don’t usually do it with harsh words. They do it with pretty words that make you feel good. Otherwise, why would you listen?
What you hear can affect your mood even when you don’t think you’re listening. Don’t believe it? Turn on an “end of the world” movie and take a nap. That’s why it’s important to choose your music carefully.
- Angry lyrics have been shown to increase anger and tension in teens
- A study of country music showed it could lead to depression.
- Music can lower inhibitions and increase arousal.
- Classical music lowers blood pressure and can lower tension.
- Very fast or chaotic rhythms can cause confusion, and decrease concentration.
- Up lifting songs, and upbeat rhythms increase productivity.
Be careful what you allow into your head, through your ears. Set your limits, before someone can talk you into something with pretty words. Ask yourself, “Will I gain knowledge, learn truth, or become more wise by listening?” “How does it affect the way I feel, the way I act?” Keep your ears “clean” in a way your Father would be proud of.
Oh, be careful little ears what you hear.
Oh, be careful little ears what you hear.
For the Father up above is looking down in love.
Oh, be careful little ears what you hear.
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November 28, 2008 at 9:21 pm
davidrochester
I have to say, I don’t think anyone has ever tried to control or coerce me with flattery. Or if they have, it hasn’t made any impression on me whatsoever.
BTW, thank you for the lovely card. It was nice to see your handwriting … different than type on a screen, you know?
November 28, 2008 at 11:59 pm
Shawn W
LOL I think women may be more susceptible, David.
Just glad you could read my chicken scratching.
November 29, 2008 at 11:00 am
davidrochester
Ohhhhh, I see. Hmmmm. Maybe I should incorporate more flattery into my own coercion efforts.
November 29, 2008 at 4:45 pm
Corina
I think men are just as susceptible to flattery as women but it takes a certain kind of person that will listen to the flattery and think it is true. I think some people need the flattery more than others and they take it and hold it close and yes, some of them actually come to believe it’s all true.
November 29, 2008 at 10:08 pm
Shawn W
Why David! I do believe Mr Random is rubbing off on you!
Corina, that’s the best way I’ve ever seen it explained. “they take it and hold it close” exactly!
December 1, 2008 at 6:47 am
katdish
You mentioned motivational speakers instead of preachers. I grew up in Houston, where Joel Osteen’s megachurch is located. I hear people say “I just feel better after hearing him”, or “he’s so positive.” Based upon my understanding of God’s word, I believe that Osteen and others like him are preaching heresy and leading millions of people astray. Every week at Lakewood people hold up their bibles and chant:
“This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. I have what it says I have. I do what it says I can do,” and building to an oddly colorful climax: “I am about to receive the incorruptible, indestructible, ever-living seed of God, and I will never be the same. Never, never, never. I will never be the same. In Jesus’ name. Amen.”
What a sad irony that if any of those 47,000 in attendance or the millions more watching from the comfort of their living rooms actually studied those bibles instead of shaking them above their heads every Sunday, they would come to understand that the Prosperity, Health and Wealth, Name it and Claim It “Gospel” isn’t the Gospel at all. I don’t have a problem with new Christians being fed on spiritual milk — it’s when they switch from milk to kool-aid instead of meat — that disturbs me immensely.
When writing my own blog or leaving comments on others, I often edit myself because I don’t want to offend or cause people to be hurt by my tendency towards sarcasm. But because I care infinately more about what God thinks of me than what people do, I don’t cut Osteen and the like any slack. To say that their positive messages aren’t hurting anyone is simply not true. They are twisting the scriptures and leading people to believe that God is some kind of holy ATM machine; that if their kids die or their businesses fail it is because they don’t have enough faith. What a load of crap. Okay. I’m gonna stop now before I get all worked up (again).
Sorry to go off on that little tangent — I am enjoying this series very much.
December 1, 2008 at 10:43 pm
Shawn W
Amen, sister! Swing that holy sword!
You may go on a tangent like that one any time you like.